You may recall my previous story entitled "Amazing Women", highlighting Belinda and Linda, and their respective goals. At the time they were immersed in training mode and looking forward to the challenge ahead.
I caught up with the two lovely ladies in question after the completion of their epic efforts of physical endurance in the name of charity. I am sure you will agree they really are inspirational. Maybe reading their stories may create impetus to commence your own charitable quest.
Belinda
Palliative Care Unit Royal Childrens Hospital - 200kms over 9 days
With partner Melissa raised $4,685.00
thesounding line: How did you come to choose this particular event?
Belinda: I read about Liat Harrower – a local Mum who had lost her little boy to a
rare illness when he was 7 years old (2 years ago), she had gone to her
local rotary club to talk to them about an annual event that could
raise money and awareness about families in similar situations and they
had started this walk two years ago – the third walk was in March 2012
(the first I completed).
She had financially battled to provide her son
Mitchell with a good quality of life whilst he was dying. I was shocked
to find out about the limited funding available for parents like Liat
who have children that are born with life threatening and life limiting
diseases or illnesses. I chose to complete the walk for personal
reasons – the first because I am very fortunate to have two very
healthy, beautiful children and wanted to raise awareness and money
within my community and network of family and friends and I also wished
to give back to the community I live in. The second reason was to set
myself a physical and emotional challenge to complete the 200km’s and I
did!
thesoundingline: The positive health benefits of walking are widely understood. Given you
commenced walking training many months before the event, what have you
noticed about your overall wellbeing?
Belinda:
I felt fantastic both physically and emotionally. Training with my
partner Melissa allowed us to walk three – four times a week. On a Saturday
or Sunday morning we would complete a 20-25 km walk and the other 2/3 times
we would do around 10-15 km’s of an early morning or late evening. I
would sleep better, be able to function better at work and at home and
generally ate better because of the exercise done.
thesoundingline: What has this experience taught you?
Belinda: Lots of things – not taking people for granted who are special to me in
my life – my husband, parents, sisters. Having more patience with my
children, appreciating that I am so lucky to have them in my life so
healthy and happy. Being respectful of others people’s situations – that
I am lucky to have such a loving wonderful family and there are a lot
of people who are not as fortunate as what I am. On the physical side of
things – I can achieve things physically if I put my mind to it. There
were some really difficult times during the walk where I was tired,
sore and my joints and muscles wanted me to give it up, but it was my
mental state that got me through. It was just as big a mental challenge
as it was physical.
*Photo courtesy of Belinda Iatrou
Linda
Oxfam Trailwalker - 100km in 48hrs
With three team members of 'Just Because' raised $5,450
thesoundingline: Many people avoid setting physical goals, such as trying a fun run or
joining a sporting team. They decide before attempting such tasks they
are not sporty or tough enough. What would you say to someone who feels a
failure before they have really tried?
Linda: Recently my 5 year old son asked me if he could be a “Bob the builder”
when he grows up. I told him that he could be anything he wanted to be
and this is the same advice I would give anyone who was thinking about
trying something new. So what if you fail, it’s about giving it your all
and being able to look back and say that you had a go. I understand
people who have hesitations in undertaking a sporting challenge or
joining a team. My initial reaction to undertaking the Oxfam walk was
“100km, I don’t think I can do that” but then I looked further into it. I
read the suggested training schedule, went to an information session
and then started to plan my training 6 months out from the event date.
My advice is to prepare (mentally as well as physically) and train as
much as you can.
thesoundingline: Did you experience any dark or euphoric moments during the 48 hour push for the finish line?
Linda: One of each in fact! At 1am, we had reached our team’s designated rest
stop which we had planned to be time enough to have ice baths, massages,
hot showers, clean clothes and food. At this point, one of the team
members had exceptionally bad blisters and had to go to the podiatry
clinic to be checked. She was in all sorts of pain but was determined to
continue. The treatment she required was extreme and it took quite some
time before we got back onto the track. It was 4am, freezing cold and
in this time, I had suffered diarrhea, an upset tummy and just became
really tired. The stretch of trail that we were on was the Warburton
trail and it is just kilometer after kilometer of flat straight trail. I
had already used my main motivation tool (referring to the list of all
the friends and family who had donated to our team) and was lacking
motivation. I had left the ear phones to my i pod in at home so music
was not much of an option. My eye lids were virtually falling down and I
was barely able to lift them. It was just on dawn and quite foggy and I
was feeling at my lowest, starting to let the negative thoughts creep
in. Right then, I saw a massive mob of kangaroos making their way across
the top of a nearby hill and they took my mind completely off how I was
feeling. It was a quintessential Aussie moment in the bush which made
me smile. Shortly after that, we reached a check point that had coffee
and an egg a bacon roll – I was feeling motivated again after that and
only had 40km’s to go!
My moment of euphoria was right at the end when I saw my 2 boys come
running out of the crowd towards me. This was the moment that I had
visualised from the day I had decided to do the walk and it was better
than I had hoped for. All the emotions I was feeling erupted into sobs
of tears and my boys gave me the biggest hugs you could imagine. I had
dropped to my knees to hold them and tell them that Mummy couldn’t
believe she had finished and then I suddenly thought “how am I ever
going to get up?!” As we all know, the body does amazing things when you
need it to and not only did I get up but I carried my 3 year old across
the finish line whilst holding hands with the 5 year old! I even saw my
Husband with tears in his eyes. We were celebrating so many things – a
challenge achieved, the support of a family for me to do it and of
course, the fact that our team had just raised almost $5500 for people
around the world living in poverty. And it only took 31 hours and 23
minutes!
thesoundingline: Do you have any plans for the next adventure?
Linda: I am still in the
white board stage of deciding what the next adventure will be. However I
did recently confront my fear of heights when my 3 year old asked me to
take him on a flying fox which was fairly high up in the trees and went
over a lake!
Until I decide what is next (physically) and there
will be something, I have the adventure of my eldest child going to
school next year and that is way more daunting than walking 100km I
assure you!
*Photo courtesy of Linda Witton
thesoundingline thanks these amazing ladies for sharing their stories and their precious time! You are the emodiment of one of my favourites quotes...
"Above all be the heroine of your life, not the victim." Nora Ephron